“These words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” (Deuteronomy 6:6–7)
Begin teaching your children to pray as early as possible. Of course, as you teach your children to pray, you should also teach them to delight in God, honor his Word, and pursue holiness.
Being thankful daily is an excellent practice to cultivate. It is so important that we teach our kids how to pray. It is important to get them used to thinking what they are thankful for, “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18). It takes practice and patience to be consciously thankful every day.
For children, prayers are a way to learn about God and connect with Him meaningfully. By saying prayers, they can understand who He is and how they can rely on Him for support throughout their lives. Prayer is simply speaking to God like speaking to mom or dad, or a dear friend.
Prayer is an essential part of a child’s spiritual development, as it helps them connect with God and develop a deeper understanding of their faith. Through prayer, children can gain peace, guidance, and comfort from God in times of need. Additionally, prayers can help to increase love and cooperation within the family, which is an important part of the child’s overall well-being.
Making prayer a regular part of your family culture will help make it a normal part of your child’s life. Consider incorporating some of the following into your family routine.
We can start with the simplest ways.
- Thank you God for this day that you have made for me to enjoy and learn more about You dear Lord.
- Thank you for my family, my health and my home.
- Get them used to thanking God for their food each time meal time comes around.
- Teach them to pray for others, like their teachers, classmates, and friends, who may need healing, wisdom, or salvation.
- Prying for protection is something you can incorporate as your children get used to speaking to the Lord each day. It is an important reminder to trust in God, who will always be there to watch over and guide them.
- Teach them to pray before going to bed, thanking God for the day, their home and a cozy and warm bed.
When children learn to pray, they develop a connection with God and become more aware of His love and presence in their lives.
Prayer also helps children focus and calm themselves in times of anxiety or fear and teaches children about loving others.
In the beginning, kids may not understand that prayer is simply a conversation with God, just like that daily conversation with a parent. God however, wants to be close to them and have an intimate and safe, trust-based relationship with them! That’s why teaching kids to pray is so important.
Talking to God reminds us that He is in control, He loves us, and He wants to be close to us. It’s all part of us having a relationship with Him.
1 John 5:14 says, “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.”
So, how can I teach my child to pray?
Begin where the child is. It is never too early or too late to teach your child to pray. With an infant, you can begin by singing “Jesus Loves Me” and speaking simple words of thanks for your child, such as, “Thank you, God, for (name of child),” during “cuddling time.” With an older child, pause at mealtime and bedtime to say a few words of thanks for the meal and the day.
Prayers of thanksgiving are a good way to teach children to pray; even very young children can name things for which they are thankful. Be sure to use your child’s name in your own prayers of thanks. This will teach your child that she or he is important to God. Remember that your child can begin to experience a relationship with God without having to understand that relationship. As a parent, you want your child to know that God is personal. God is ready to hear the words of even the youngest child, because He loves us.
Establish a regular pattern of prayer. Children learn through ritual and routine. Mealtime and bedtime are two good occasions for establishing a ritual.
Saying a prayer before a meal reminds a child that God is the one who created the food that we eat. Hold hands around the table or fold your hands as the prayer is said.
Bedtime has always been our family’s time to quiet ourselves and prayerfully reflect on the day that is past. As you help your child get ready for bed, let this be a time to give thanks and pray for each other.
Look for other times and ways to make prayer a regular part of your family’s life together. Your child will begin to anticipate your special prayer rituals and may even remind you when it’s time to pray!
Model prayer for your child. Children learn the importance of prayer by watching and listening as their parents pray. When we pray with our children, we are sharing the relationship we have with God and at the same time that we are expressing our love for our children.
Children need to know that they can talk to God just as they would talk to a parent or a good friend, wherever and whenever they want. God is always ready to listen.
Look for opportunities to offer simple, spontaneous prayers in the presence of your child—such as thanking God for a beautiful sunset, expressing your concern for a sick friend, or asking for God’s help with a particular problem or situation. Remember that the best way to teach your child to pray is by your own example.
Teach your child that God enjoys spending time with us and how much joy they can also feel in having God’s friendship and being able to talk to Him at all times. Teach them that prayer is a relationship and remember what God’s Word tells us: “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6).
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Goodbye, until next time. Until then, remember to say your prayers obey your mom and dad and do not forget to go to church and Sunday school next week.
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